Today is your birthday. An ordinary birthday. No milestone. You’re young, but no spring break college guy with ignorance ruling your brain and other organs.
I’ve been married to you less than three years. I’ll be honest, when we said, “I do,” I thought that was when the short countdown had started that would tick off the seconds until you would stop being as awesome as I hoped you were.
You’ve done the opposite.
You’ve shown me what Christ’s love really is. Even when I’m feeling as though I am at my worst, you remind me that you love the snot out of me. That you think the world of me. And that you love me no matter how horrible and slow and emotionally wrecked I may be.
You’ve shown me what a best friend really is. My whole life, I searched for best friends who would accept me and be themselves around me as well. You are that person. You accept all versions of me: smart, ditsy, polished, grungy, creative, boring, goofy, serious, organized, flaky, grumpy, friendly.
I tell you these things all the time. I love that about our marriage. We can give one another what may feel like corny compliments. But those compliments help us to trust one another even more, since we both struggle to accept ourselves in our imperfections.
Even at your worst, you impress me. I’d say that you’re better than me when you’re at your worst. But you’d hate that I say that, denying it fervently. I am continually impressed at how you carefully, diligently, and lovingly join with me to handle conflicts, problems, and concerns. You’re the best teammate ever. And I trust you.
So, on this day, an ordinary birthday, I look forward to spending many more birthdays with you. Traveling with you. Attempting spontaneity with you. Seeking Christ with you. Laughing with you. Crying with you. Dancing in the kitchen with you. Making decisions with you.
Your Cute Wife